I once lived with a family where the two year old, who had out grown diapers, refused to be potty trained. Rather, she would climb into a chair and defecate. Of course we all excused her the first 20 times or so until one day her mom lost it. She gave the baby the spanking of a lifetime and that helped to achieve the desired results instantly!
This is clearly not the same thing.
The baby was said to have been vomiting as well so obviously she was ill and unable to help herself. Not everybody is able to cope with cleaning up feces but beating her to a pulp and shoving her hard enough that she would hit her head and die is something from a completely different dimension. The frustration of biting poverty never brings out the best in anyone but the average man’s absolute lack of engagement with the home front does not help either.
If this dude spent more time at home, he may have noticed his wife’s mistreatment of the child and cautioned her, because I just don’t believe the woman suddenly became a monster over night. This attitude of the home front is the woman’s business needs to stop. It takes two to make a home and they both have important roles to play. My take.
May the baby’s soul rest in peace. If there is such a thing as reincarnation, I hope she is next born into a loving home.
A 21-year-old woman, Rebecca Bassey, has been arrested by the Lagos State Police Command for allegedly beating her husband’s three-year-old niece, Deborah Bassey, to death.
According to police authorities, the suspect beat up the girl because she vomited and defecated on herself.
A police source told PUNCH Metro on Thursday that the incident occurred at Ijaiye Ojokoro area of the state on July 22, 2013.
He said, “The victim (Deborah) lost her mother in 2010. Early this year, Deborah’s father was evicted from his home and he decided to send Deborah and his second child to go and stay with his brother, Vincent, until he settles down.
“Deborah and her nine-year-old sister were living with Vincent and his wife, Rebecca, in a one-room apartment at Powerline, Jankara, Ijaiye Ojokoro. However, Rebecca was always maltreating the two children.”
According to police investigations, on the day of the incident, Deborah woke up around 5.30am with a high temperature.
The three-year-old girl was said to have started vomiting and defecating soon after. This was said to have angered Rebecca, who instead of administering treatment to the child, decided to beat her up.
A police source said, “In the process of beating the girl, the suspect pushed her and she fell, hitting her head against the edge of a wooden chair in the room.”
A woman leader in the area, Kudirat Ogunseyi, was said to have reported the matter to Ijaye Ojokoro Police Division after which the suspect was arrested.
Some neighbours, in their statements at the police station, described the suspect as a hot-tempered woman, who was fond of beating the children.
“The way that woman beats up the children was very worrying to the extent that the landlord had threatened to evict them,” one of the statements reads.
Vincent told the police that he was not present when his wife beat his niece to death.
“I was not at home when the incident happened. I am a photographer during daytime but I work as a vigilante group member. So I hardly sleep at home,” he said.
The suspect however said she did not kill the victim deliberately. She said she only pushed Deborah and she hit her head against the chair.
“I am a housewife and I have a 10-month-old baby. I did not mean to kill her (Deborah). I only pushed her because she vomited and defecated on the floor. I was only trying to correct her. It was not deliberate. I am a mother too and I know how I would feel if my son was killed,” she said.
A source at the SCID said the police were waiting for autopsy. He added that if other wounds were found on other parts of the victim’s body, it would prove that the victim was indeed tortured before her death.
When contacted on the telephone, the Police Public Relations Officer, Ngozi Braide, said she would call back.
Culled from www.punchng.com