Well I don’t know how true this story is (anyone can sit down and put a bit of fiction together and send it on off to a blogger) but I am publishing it because I am assuming the original publisher has done her due diligence and is satisfied with the authenticity of the story. Plus, it reflects that ‘do me I do you’ culture which for me says, you are not ready for your relationship or marriage to work. That said, if the husband was truly acting out like she said, I do feel sorry for her.
Now a lot of people will probably say, ‘she must have been doing something wrong to send him into the arms of another woman.’ That is a distinct possibility. It is also wrong. If she was doing something he did not like, I think rather than run off into the arms of other equally imperfect women, he should have tried to work with the one he is yoked to. Now, she has also decided, ‘if you can do it, so can I,’ another wrong move if you ask me but then…I guess we are only human no? LOL! Well read the story and draw your conclusions!
From a LIB reader
I have been the angry, unsatisfied and bitter wife for the last nine years. I’m married to a man who has absolutely no respect for the marriage institution. He has had more girlfriends than I have changed my hair since we got married. He started cheating on me months after our wedding in 2004 when I was pregnant. And it hasn’t stopped ever since. Every other day a different girl, a different situation, a lot of drama. Initially he would lie or try to cover up when I ask him questions or catch him but now he tells me to go to hell and leave the marriage if I was no longer satisfied.
Well, I have four kids and I don’t plan to be a single mother in this kind of environment so I’m staying put in my marriage but I’m done being the victim. Yes, I have started cheating on my husband. I am proud to say I have a boyfriend who I have regular, satisfying sex with. And I have absolutely no plans of being the faithful wife ever again. Once this affair ends, I’m starting a new one. There’s no going back now. As long as he’s cheating on me, I will be cheating on me. I smile a lot these days and it’s not just Jesus putting the smile on my face. This is the happiest I have been in at least 8 years. And I also discovered that quite a number of my female friends have been cheating on their husbands for years now. Why didn’t anyone give me the memo sooner? Just thought to share my happy story. Xoxo Happy Lagos wife.
Culled from Linda Ikeji’s blog.